Hi Danny,
the first thing you should do is to active your email address in your profile, this way people can contact you directly instead of posting in the forum.
To contact a member can be done two ways,
1. Click on 'Member' at the top of the page, select the member you wish to contact, click on the envelope symbol in the 'Email' column, and bingo.
2. If you have seen a post from a member and you wish to contact him just click on the envelope symbol under his name.
Av Phun.
Cheers. KarlG.